It’s one of the most common fears in any long-term relationship: the slow, quiet fading of the spark. The frantic, can’t-keep-your-hands-off-each-other energy of the beginning gives way to comfortable routines, Netflix binges, and, for many, a nagging question: “Is this it? Is the passion gone for good?” We’ve been sold a myth that desire is a wild, spontaneous force that either strikes like lightning or doesn’t. It’s a romantic idea, but it’s also the reason so many couples feel like they’ve failed when the initial frenzy inevitably cools. But what if the spark doesn’t actually disappear at all? What if Continue reading